Are you a hero, or an a-hole? When it comes to dating, persistence doesn’t pay.
It’s easy to get caught up in the ‘hero’ narrative – the one that says if we try hard enough, we’ll get the happy ending we want. But persistence isn’t always a good thing – in fact, it often makes us look like a-holes.
Pandemic sexting safety: digital security tips with Steve Kent
Do you use sexting and other online platforms to connect with partners? Get tips for safety and privacy, with security specialist Steve Kent.
Is this the end of casual sex? I don’t think so.
The coronavirus pandemic has transformed the way we think about sex and dating. But don’t declare your love life a disaster zone just yet…there’s still hope.
5 simple sex skills I think EVERYONE should know
Sexual superstardom isn’t about being young, hot or naturally talented. Here are five straightforward skills that make a huge difference.
Why I REALLY appreciate guys who can’t get it up.
It’s every man’s nightmare: a penis that won’t perform. But when it comes to erection problems, I love spending time with guys who understand that our bodies aren’t always under our control.
We’ve all had average sex…but my work as an escort showed me that it’s possible to do better.
My work as an escort has taught me that we shouldn’t put up with mediocre sex lives. Here’s what I think is holding us back.
Sex toys and hook ups: what works?
A fling with someone new might not feel like the best time to open the toy box…but sometimes the right piece of equipment can make a big difference.
So…you got a ‘no.’ Here are your options.
Do you struggle with rejection? You’re not alone. If you’re stuck working out how to handle a ‘no,’ here are your options.
How to survive the Rejectionocalypse
Rejection is hard to take. But rejection resilience – being strong enough to bounce back – can help you move on to better dates, fast.
A no-bullshit guide to sexual consent
Consent doesn’t need to be complicated. Here’s a crash course in asking…and how to use it for better sex.
5 must-have sex skills for modern singles
Being great at sex doesn’t come ‘naturally’. It comes from a willingness to try new things, an openness to learning, and a bit of practice.
Using your words: 5 ways to have better conversations about sex
Trying to guess leads to bad sex. Here are five ways to get talking with your hook ups, and learn how to be an outstanding lover.
How to hook up with sex workers
Whether you’re looking fun, intimacy, adventure, or learning, paying for what you need is an excellent option. Here’s how sex workers can help.
When it comes to sex, ‘normal’ is bullshit.
Why does everyone worry about what’s normal in the bedroom? We’re all different – and trying to fit in can totally wreck your sex life.
Boring sex? Maybe it’s time to ditch the script.
Do your sexual escapades give you déjà vu? You might need to change up the script…
Flirty vs creepy: how to connect without crossing the line.
Some people worry about accidentally making unwanted advances. If this is you, I’ve got some good news – avoiding ‘creepy’ is easier than you think.
5 hard dating truths that pick up artists won’t tell you
In the interests of saving your love life (and your sanity) here are five things you really need to know, that you’ll never hear from the so-called ‘experts’.
Casual sex is good for you. Here’s why.
For many of us, casual sex is a regular part of life – and it’s crucial to our health and wellbeing.
My favourite types of hook ups: an introduction to friends with benefits, one-night stands, and more…
What is a hook-up? When it comes to sex, there are so many options. Here are some of my favourites.