Recent Articles
It’s time to launch the book
It’s almost time to release the book! ‘The Art of the Hook-Up: Your Ethical Guide to a Successful Sex Life’ launches on the 17th of September.
So…you got a ‘no.’ Here are your options.
Here’s the situation. You have a ‘no’. Now it’s your job to decide what you want to do with it.
The life-changing magic of tidying up your love life
When everything we own must ‘spark joy’, is it time to do a spring clean and remove unrewarding emotional ties from our lives?
How to Survive the Rejectionocalypse
Rejection resilience is a worthy skill to learn – the more practised you become at avoiding the rejectionocalypse, the quicker you’re able to move on and have better experiences.
A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Consent
Consent doesn’t need to be complicated. Ask before you do stuff, check in while you’re doing stuff, debrief afterwards … these three steps will put you ahead of the competition.
5 Must-Have Sex Skills
Being great at sex doesn’t come ‘naturally’. It comes from a willingness to try new things, an openness to learning, and a bit of practice.
Use Your Words: 5 Ways to Have Better Conversations About Sex
Trying to guess = bad sex. By putting the above techniques into practice you’ll be able to zero in on exactly what your partner wants, and make it clear what you want.
Crushed by Rejection on Vacation
Sometimes a hook-up is everything I need: interesting, emotionally connected, sexy as fuck. It’s these interludes that restore my faith in the process. Even though it’s hit-and-miss, it’s totally possible to have brief encounters that fulfill my needs – amazing connections that are no less valuable for being brief.
5 Quick Tinder Profile Tune-Ups
One of the joys (and horrors) of Tinder is that there are no hard-and-fast rules. It’s more of an art than a science. I can’t tell you what’s going to work for everyone, but I can tell you what works for me! Here are a few quick ideas…