The Book

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'The Art of the Hook-Up' is an ethical guide to connection and intimacy, for all genders.

The book grew out of a frustration with my experience on online dating apps – with so many different standards and misunderstandings about sex, it’s hard to find people who are on the same wavelength. Online dating and casual sex are confusing in these modern times. The ‘rules’ are changing so quickly; I don’t blame my dates for not knowing how to handle an outspoken 36-year-old with a penchant for one-night stands!

The stuff I’ve learned from my job as an escort works well for me when picking up online. Communication, consent, connection … all these skills allow me to have more enjoyable casual experiences. Whenever I hook up with someone new, I share my ideas in the hopes that they’ll pass them on to the next person they meet.

I used to joke that I was changing the world ‘one date at a time’ Unfortunately, there’s only so much of me to go around. So instead, I’ve packed my ideas and experiences into those pages.

Do you wish you had a better sex life? Do you want to feel more confident?  Hooking up can be fun and rewarding for everyone, if it’s done right. That’s what this book is for.

Release date: TBA

Read the first 50 pages here