The life-changing magic of tidying up your love life
When everything we own must ‘spark joy’, is it time to do a spring clean and remove unrewarding emotional ties from our lives?
When everything we own must ‘spark joy’, is it time to do a spring clean and remove unrewarding emotional ties from our lives?
Rejection resilience is a worthy skill to learn – the more practised you become at avoiding the rejectionocalypse, the quicker you’re able to move on and have better experiences.
Consent doesn’t need to be complicated. Ask before you do stuff, check in while you’re doing stuff, debrief afterwards … these three steps will put you ahead of the competition.
Being great at sex doesn’t come ‘naturally’. It comes from a willingness to try new things, an openness to learning, and a bit of practice.
Trying to guess = bad sex. By putting the above techniques into practice you’ll be able to zero in on exactly what your partner wants, and make it clear what you want.
Sometimes a hook-up is everything I need: interesting, emotionally connected, sexy as fuck. It’s these interludes that restore my faith in the process. Even though it’s hit-and-miss, it’s totally possible to have brief encounters that fulfill my needs – amazing connections that are no less valuable for being brief.
One of the joys (and horrors) of Tinder is that there are no hard-and-fast rules. It’s more of an art than a science. I can’t tell you what’s going to work for everyone, but I can tell you what works for me! Here are a few quick ideas…
Sex workers are one of Australia’s most underrated resources.
I should know..I’ve been working as an escort for six years. Sex work is much more than just sex for money.
Let go of ‘normal’ – it’s bullshit. From the chick who loves going to sex parties to the roommate who watches kinky porn, everyone has something about their sex life that makes them a bit different.
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