...and because I was tired of changing it one person at a time. Let's face it, there are a lot of people out there, and I can't fuck all of them.
I've always been a hook-up enthusiast.
You could say I've been doing casual sex since ‘before it was cool'. Perhaps by virtue of my secular upbringing, or just via my own dogged sense of individuality, I never felt the pressure to conform to what girls were 'supposed' to do. When other kids at school were gossiping about who was kissing who behind the woodworking sheds, I was reading sex manuals on the Internet. While my university friends and I were all out drinking on weekends, they got pissed while I picked up guys at the bar.
My enthusiasm for the casual fling didn't always end well. I hurt partners' feelings, behaved like an asshole and broke hearts. I ended up in a few scary situations. But over time, I learned. My natural curiosity led me to the kink scene, where I learned that talking about sex beforehand is a really great idea. I began to read more on the subject, and discovered the joys of 'the Ethical Slut', 'Sex Before Dawn' and 'SM101'. Ever the nerd, I loved reading up on sex and experimenting with my partners.