Trying to guess = bad sex. By putting the above techniques into practice you’ll be able to zero in on exactly what your partner wants, and make it clear what you want.
Sometimes a hook-up is everything I need: interesting, emotionally connected, sexy as fuck. It’s these interludes that restore my faith in the process. Even though it’s hit-and-miss, it’s totally possible to have brief encounters that fulfill my needs – amazing connections that are no less valuable for being brief.