the Art of the Hook-Up


A no-bullsh*t guide to FWBs, one-night stands and other modern adventures.


Hook-up: a sexual encounter that's too short or too casual to be considered a romantic relationship.

We assume we're supposed to magically know all about sex. We all want the moves. But the truth is, we're not born knowing. That's what this book is for. It's an honest guide that doesn't pull punches: an explanation of casual sex and online dating designed for everyone. It gives you the sexual and psychological skills you need to have safe and rewarding encounters. With the right know-how, a great hook-up is totally do-able.

STATUS: Not yet available - launch date coming soon!

Read the first 50 pages

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Jun 2018

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the 5 Things Pick Up Artists Won't Tell You

In the interests of saving your love life (and your sanity) here are five things you really need to know about picking up, that you'll never hear from the so-called 'experts'.

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Jun 2018

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What's a Hook-Up, Anyway?

A hook-up is any sexual interaction that requires less time and emotional investment than a loving partnership. There are many ways to connect with partners, and not all of these are of the 'pash and ...

16

Jun 2018

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Why You Shouldn't Be an A-Hole

The more we act like A-holes, the more wounded and fucked-up people there will be. Although using and abusing might give you a short-term advantage, in the long run everyone suffers.

16

Jun 2018

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How the 'Tragedy of the Commons' Ruins Online Dating for Everyone

Every now and again we all get to a point where the barrage of dick pics and 'hey babe' becomes overwhelming, and we're tempted to give up. The reason why we sometimes end up this way, and why the dat ...

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Apr 2018

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Flirting vs Sexual Harassment

It's not illegal to talk to someone you don't know. If we never spoke to strangers, we'd never make new friends. And before apps and dating sites came along, there was only one way to find new people ...

10

Apr 2018

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How to Plan a Threesome

I’m covering this topic for a reason. During a holiday in Hawaii last year, a friend gave me a call. He wasn't a close friend, just someone I see occasionally who happens to know my profession. My fri ...

04

Apr 2018

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Why Hook Up with Sex Workers?

Sex workers are one of Australia's most under-utilised resources. I should know. .. I've been working as an escort for six years. In that time I have helped people lose their virginities, taught guys ...

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Apr 2018

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Connection is the #1 Sex Move

When we're 'tuned in' to another person, their feelings, thoughts and needs become important to us - and ours become important to them. Connection is that feeling you get when someone acknowledges you ...